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Wedding Words of Wisdom - 8.4.18

Kim and Jeff blended their two beautiful families at their wedding this past Saturday. Their adult children were more than excited to be part of the ceremony and see their parents so happy. The wedding took place at Weymouth Country Club on the back patio and lawn area. Some people had never been to a wedding on a golf course and told me they were waiting to get konked in the head by a golf ball!

Fortunately, all the bride and groom and I had to deal with was an uninvited guest - a pesky yellow jacket that decided to try and interrupt the beginning of the service. But it soon got tired of us swatting him out of the way and left us alone for the rest of the ceremony.

Kim was glowing while Jeff did his best not to be too nervous. So sweet! We all tried not to sweat too much in the blistering heat but it was a really hot one.

This is a couple who know each well and I'm sure will have a very happy marriage. Wishing them only the best.

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Monday 08.06.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 7.21.18

Busy weekend of weddings - still reeling from the celebrity wedding last night. This morning I am off to North Ridgeville for a house wedding. This sweet couple, Mike and Jaime, are so much in love. This was a lovely, intimate wedding with just his son, her mother and the son's girlfriend. Jaime looked beautiful in a pink dress and a magnificent bouquet. Both got emotional during the ceremony showing how much they love each other. I love the ceremonies when the bride and groom a bit older and truly understand the seriousness of the commitment and show it. They seem to say the vows with so much more feeling. This is a couple that will certainly be married for a very long time. Wishing them so much love and happiness.

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Saturday 07.21.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 7.20.18

So I booked this wedding less than a week ago. I did not meet with the bride and groom like I usually do and just talked to the bride on the phone and via email. She said that she and her fiance had been together five years and just built a new home in Medina. They were having a housewarming party and wanted to surprise their family and friends by turning it into a wedding party. So they wanted me to marry them at the party. This sounded like a lot of fun so I was happy to do it. She gave me the information I needed and she told me that they wanted the ceremony to be short and casual. So I took my ceremony and cut it in half and customized it with the surprise aspect. I was to be there at 9:00 p.m., well after the party had started.

Well, I was the one who the most surprised! When John and I arrived we were first met by police partially blocking the street. They had a guest list they were checking off and we were allowed to continue down the road. We now see many, many cars lining this neighborhood of huge houses. As we are walking up their very long driveway, we are approached again - this time by security with another guest check list. And then I see security guards all over the place. John and I have no idea what I have gotten myself into.

As we are met by Shane and Brittany, the bride and groom, a huge Mercedes van comes up the driveway. I was asked to wait while they went off to the van. I find out that the rapper, Lil John, is in the van and he is going to do a surprise performance. I, of course, have never heard of this young man but I am quite intrigued with the whole thing. So while we are waiting, John googles Shane French only to find out that he is also a celebrity - Rover French, shock jock on WMMS, and has a nationally syndicated show. Wow! Was I ever surprised. My first celebrity wedding!

Shane (aka Rover) tells me that he wants me to improvise the ceremony with him. I'm going - what? I can improvise when need be in a ceremony but not the whole ceremony! YIkes! But that;s what we do. I go up on the stage that they have erected in their huge backyard and Rover tells everyone that there is going to be a wedding. The crowd goes nuts and we are off. I pretty much threw my ceremony away and went right into the vows and ring exchange. We pulled it off and it was great fun. What a crazy, fun couple they are. We were laughing through most of it. It certainly was the most "unique" wedding I have every performed - one for the book I am going to write someday for sure!

Rover and Brittany were thrilled with the ceremony. I must have done well because I had numerous people come up and say I was did a great job. Everyone thought that the fact that I didn't know who Rover or Lil John were made it just the more fun. I know these two are in for quite an exciting ride. I am definitely going to listen to his show and I may even have to call in. :)

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Saturday 07.21.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 7.14.18

Now I was off to the second wedding on this very hot day. Fortunately, my sweet husband played chauffeur and valet. Joe and Hilary were married at the Fairlawn Country Club - a very lovely, upscale venue. Because of the heat and humidity I had sprayed my hair solid knowing that two weddings in the heat were going to play havoc with my hair. Fortunately, it worked. At this second wedding of the day, I wore a long robe with a blue stole that matched the bride's colors. It was 92 degrees by this time and I was HOT - and not in a good way. :) I could feel my bangs starting to stick to the side of my head!

Hilary looked stunning in a beautiful gown with intricate lace and Joe was quite handsome in his tux. The bridesmaids and groomsmen were in navy blue. They are both very tall and make quite a striking couple. The groom was the one who showed more nervousness at this wedding during the vows but quickly recovered. So sweet.

Even through the heat, the guests managed well during the ceremony and into the cocktail hour after. There was a beautiful bar and wait staff handing out hor d' oeuvres. Very classy and very, very nice. Lovely couple and lovely family.

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Saturday 07.21.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 7.14.18

Benjamin and Joanna were married at the Wade Park Lagoon in front of the Cleveland Art Museum on a scorching hot day last weekend. This was the first of two weddings for me on that day. These two were just as cute as can be. Benjamin had the Unity Sand Ceremony all set up on a bench awaiting his beautiful bride. Joanna arrived in a bouffant dress almost as wide as she is tall. She is a little tiny thing and looked just like a fairy princess. The ceremony, fortunately, was in the shade under a huge tree which made it much more comfortable. There were about 10-12 family members witnessing this special ceremony. At the end, the guests threw rose petals. The geese that frequent the lagoon mistook the petals for food and a good 20 geese rushed toward us. Needless to say they were quite disappointed with the ruse. I know that this couple's love will only continue to grow and they will have a lovely life together.

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Saturday 07.21.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 7.7.18

Jim and Jessica both work for hotels (one in Miami Beach and one in Grand Cayman), so it was natural for them to pick a hotel for their wedding in Cleveland. And what a hotel - the Tudor Arms in University Circle! Built in 1931, this beautiful hotel exudes old world class and grandeur.

Jessica was stunning in a simple, very elegant gown with the bridesmaids in one shoulder, navy blue long gowns. The groom and groomsmen were all stylish in navy blue suits with brown shoes.

Jessica got her jitters out at the rehearsal and both said their vows and ring exchange with love and sincerity. They are obviously very much in love and will live in Grand Cayman where they can be on their honeymoon every day! Wishing them so much love and happiness in their new life together.

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Tuesday 07.10.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - June 16, 2018

Could this bride look any more radiant? Amanda was beaming after her wedding to Joe at Rustic Hills Country Club in Medina. What a joyous couple. They have much to be joyful about - especially their adorable two-year old daughter. Olivia decided to join her mother while Amanda was saying her vows to Joe. Usually, that would have been a big disruption but Olivia just stood and watched until a groomsman coaxed her to come to him. It was a very sweet moment.

One word of warning, if your venue does not offer a wedding coordinator, make sure your officiant can pitch in and run the rehearsal. I have performed several weddings at Rustic Hills so I had no problem. But this venue has an unusual set up. And inexperienced officiant could have had trouble coordinating a large wedding party like this one at this venue. If your officiant doesn't run rehearsals like I do, you can always ask a friend to help out.

As it was, Joe and Amanda and their entire wedding party performed flawlessly and the ceremony went on without a hitch. I know that these two lovely people will have a wonderful life together with their sweet daughter. Wishing them only the best!

 

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Wednesday 06.20.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - June 8, 2018

There  couldn't have been a more idyllic place for the wedding of Jim and Heather. Both of them are avid runners and them met in Sand Run Metro Park while running years ago. So they decided to get married at Shady Hollow Lodge in the park. This is a brand new lodge and it is just lovely for a small to medium-sized wedding.

Jim and Heather could not be more in love. What a special wedding this was with immediate family. Heather's beautiful three children stood with the couple. It was easy to see how much Jim loves these kids and will be a great step-father.

Jim's emotional speech before the wedding set the loving tone for the ceremony. It looked like everyone was tearing up a bit - even me! I find that when I marry mature adults they are more emotional when they are saying their vows because they are truly feeling the words. It is so very touching.

This is a loving, sweet couple with a beautiful family. There is no doubt that they will have an exceptional life together. Sending them much love and many blessings.

 

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Saturday 06.09.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - May 12, 2018

The main lesson from this wedding is to have a Plan B. Bobby and Nicole planned their wedding to be outside on the golf course green at Fowler's Mill in Chesterland. True to Northeast Ohio weather it was freezing for the rehearsal and then rainy for the wedding. Fortunately. their reception was also being held at Fowler's Mill so it was easy to take the wedding inside. That made it not as traditional as planned, since the guests were sitting at tables, but beautiful none the less. Nicole looked stunning in an elegant layered dress while her handsome groom sported a large grin on his face the entire ceremony. These are two people very much in love. As cold as it was for rehearsal that's how warm it was inside. My bangs curled up from sweat and even the bride actually said "Could someone turn the air conditioning on?" during the ceremony. They must not have had it on because it was cool outside. But with 150 people in the room it got really toasty! They spared no expense with fun extras for their guests like a donut bar and a unique guestbook of wooden hearts to write on. Wishing this beautiful couple love and blessings in their new life together!

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Monday 05.14.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 4.17.18

On Tuesday, April 17, 2018, I married Jesse and Katelyn at their beautiful home in Wadsworth. Why Tuesday, do you ask? It was their six-year anniversary. Their guests were happy to be spending a Tuesday night partying with this fun couple. What a loving family! They welcomed me in as if I were one of their own. Jesse was in tails and boots and Katelyn looked beautiful in a jewel-studded formal wedding gown. It just goes to show that you can make your wedding anything you want - there are no more rules. I was happy to assist in giving them the wedding of their dreams. The ceremony went beautifully with nervous laughter and sincere vows. They were both so anxious for those final words - "I know pronounce you husband and wife." The room burst into applause and hooting! What fun it was! Afterwards they surprised me with an extraordinary gift - a piece art with two carved African heads on it. When we met at my home, they noticed the African mask collection we have. I was overwhelmed! How incredibly thoughtful and sweet. I have already hung it and will treasure it forever. And I will treasure the memory of this very special wedding.

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Wednesday 04.18.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 3.30.18

Yesterday afternoon at 3:30 p.m on 3/30/18 I officiated at the wedding of Matthew and Kaylie in Canal Fulton. It was just the two of them in the living room of their beautiful home. This wedding was so sweet and intimate. All they wanted was to be together and share their special relationship. I was privileged to be a part of it. Wishing them so much love and happiness.

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Saturday 03.31.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom 3.24.18

I was honored to perform the wedding of Kelsey and Paul at Windows on the River in The Flats. Although all weddings are unique and joyful, this one was exceptionally so.

The love that radiated out of these two was just incredible. And such joy! Not only between them but also between their two lovely families. This is the way all wedding should be. Their beautiful energy spilled over to me and made it a very special experience. I have performed hundreds of weddings and this is one that I will never forget. I grew very close to them in a short amount of time and wish them so much love and happiness. There is no doubt that this is a marriage that will last and their love will only grow and blossom.

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Saturday 03.31.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 12.29.17

This past weekend I had the honor of officiating at my nephew Dan's wedding in Sarasota. He married the loveliest woman, Betsy, at The Founder's Club. It was outdoors under huge live oaks with beautiful Spanish moss. It couldn't have been a more perfect day - 73 degrees and sunny. Betsy looked stunning in a gorgeous classic gown and Dan, also known as Wes, looked as handsome as ever. Dan didn't seem nervous at all but I know he was a little and Betsy just wanted to make sure all the details were taken care of. My brother and sis-in-law, Jim and Barb, did an incredible job of helping to plan the wedding and the party before and after the wedding. Three parties in a row - it was great fun! And so wonderful to have our whole family all together for this very special time. I know that Dan and Betsy will have a joyous and fun-filled life together. Wishing them all the love and blessings in the world!

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Tuesday 01.02.18
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 11.25.17

A surprise wedding! How many of you have ever attended one? This was my first! Katie and Dante came to me to say that they wanted to surprise their family with their wedding. They told everyone that they had gotten married several weeks prior when they were on vacation in Oregon. So the guests on Nov. 25 thought they were going to a wedding reception at Chenoweth Country Club in Akron - one of my favorite venues. I was hidden in the manager's office until showtime. Katie went into the reception and told everyone they had to go around the corner to the next room over for their wedding. I could hear everyone saying "Awwwwwww!" So sweet. So they all came over with glasses of wine and beer in their hands. That was another first. I've never had drinking during one of my weddings before! :) Katie and Dante have been together for nine years so the family and guests were quite happy that they finally got married. Sending lots of love and happiness to this wonderfully unique couple!

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Monday 11.27.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 11.18.17

In the midst of a torrential rainstorm, Kerry and Evelyn were married at the Doubletree Hilton in Westlake on Sat., Nov. 18. While I was waiting for the bridal party to come down from their hotel rooms - minutes before the ceremony - the power went out and we were in complete darkness. The groom's mother grabbed my arm in a bit of a panic. I tried to console her and, fortunately, the power came back on in a few seconds. Whew! Now that would have been a first for me. I might have had to perform the ceremony in candlelight - how romantic. But the ceremony went perfectly with an absolutely stunning bride. Evelyn is from Peru and she is beautiful inside and out. Her handsome brother, who is serving in the Marines, was in his dress uniform and read Corinthians 13: 4-8 in English and Spanish. It was very special to hear it in Spanish. When planning your ceremony think about how you can make it special and meaningful to who you are. This was a large wedding with everyone dressed to the hilt - a lot of beautiful, sparkly dresses. So very lovely. This is a couple truly in love. I know that they will have a very special life of love and happiness together.

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Monday 11.20.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 11.4.17

Wedding season is slowing down but I still have a few weddings this year. This past weekend I married Shawna and Jon in Mentor at a beautiful new venue called Noah's Event Venue. It is really made for weddings but other functions as well. This was a really fun wedding because Jon and some of his groomsmen are full of life and craziness. Most weddings are all about the bride. Not this one. Jon waltzed down the aisle flaying his arms greeting his guests with great fanfare which caused surprise and laughter by all. Shawna looked stunning is a form-fitting gown laced with feathers on the lower portion. Very unusual and she wore it well. This couple decided to write their own vows and is not done all that often. They both did a wonderful job and delivered them with great love. They had a wonderful soloist for the processional but, unfortunately, his mic was not turned up high enough. Be sure to make a sound check before the service. Wishing Jon and Shawna the best in their new life together!

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Monday 11.06.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 10.21.17

Renee and Lizzie had the most beautiful fall weekend they could have possibly asked for this past Saturday. It was 78 degrees and sunshine. This perfect wedding was held at White Birch Barn and Vineyard, a new wedding venue in Medina. It has been a family dairy farm for years that has been exquisitely transformed into a top notch event center. I married this lovely couple in front of over ahundred of their enthusiastic family and friends. They both looked incredibly beautiful and so happy. It was wonderful to see how many people embraced this same sex marriage. Love has no gender limitations. Wishing them love and peace in their new life together.

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Monday 10.23.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Baby Blessing - 10.15.17

What could be more wonderful than a baby blessing? A baby blessing for a couple that I married a few years back! Sklar Rae Webber is the adorable baby girl of Leesa and Frank. Leesa had her dressed in a lace onesie with little lace bootie wraps on her tiny feet. She was smiling and calm until I got to the blessing where she fussed just a bit. Most babies don't like the water part. I do my baby blessings with rose petals in blessed water and lay the wet petals on the top of the head, forehead, heart, hands and feet. It's a beautiful, moving servicing welcoming the baby into the community and dedicating her life to God.

The weather held out although it was very windy which blew out all the candles. I didn't even bother to put any rose petals on the table knowing they would blow away. A baby blessing is a lovely way of acknowledging the incredible gift from God a baby is to a family. Leesa and Frank are so blessed and will make wonderful parents. I am so honored to have been a part of this special time in their lives.

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Monday 10.16.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 10.14.17

This was a very busy weekend with a wedding and a baby blessing. The wedding was at LaCentre, what I consider to be the premiere wedding venue in the Cleveland area. The lovely couple was Mike and Amy who had a wedding party of 17. It was a big and beautiful. The ceremony started with a baby of one of the bridesmaids deciding that he most definitely didn't want to be there. So, the mother had to take care of him and her husband walked down the aisle alone. I'm sure she was disappointed but she was very needed by her infant son. It's always good to have a Plan B with babies and young children.

Then the best flower girl I have ever seen who was about 8 years old came out in great flourish. Instead of tossing the flower petals on the runner, she threw them up in the air not only in the aisle but also on the guests! She was just a little spit fire. So cute! The bride was extremely calm and sincere as was the groom except for some sweating of the forehead during the vows and ring exchange. Very endearing. Wishing them so much love.

Have to mention my sparkly shoes that were a big hit. They are gold but also look silver as the light changes. Who said that the minister can't wear sparkly shoes?

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Monday 10.16.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 

Wedding Words of Wisdom - 10.6.17

This week's wedding was on Friday with a beautiful young couple, Tyler and Niki. Planning an outdoor wedding in October is risky but the weather held out for them although it was a bit cloudy. At 68 degrees it was a perfect temperature for a 6:30 p.m. wedding. The bride and groom chose to write their own vows - something that the majority of the couples I marry don't do. They were nervous but both did a wonderful job. They have been together for six years and their vows were sweet, honest and very heartfelt. Their family was very warm and gracious and made me quite comfortable and honored to be officiating. I wish them all much love and happiness.

When planning a wedding always plan to start at least 5-10 minutes late. Even though we started this wedding 10 minutes late people still came in during the ceremony. It never ceases to amaze me that people do not understand that they should arrive on time for a wedding. Latecomers happen at EVERY wedding I perform. So since it is a reality - plan for it.

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Saturday 10.07.17
Posted by Shirley MacFarland
 
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